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Young Singapore man asks minister to stop foreign men from snatching away local women

Posted by temasektimes on October 13, 2012

A young Singapore man has appealed publicly to Minister in Prime Minister Office Grace Fu during a townhall meeting recently to stop foreign men from ‘stealing’ Singaporean women from local men.

During the Q&A session, he complained that Singapore men are losing out in the race to the altar because local women are increasingly favoring foreign men.

His complaint drew a round of laughter from the audience, but he silenced them with a glaring look:

“I think we shouldn’t laugh. It is an important problem and we need to solve it,” he thundered.

He added that foreign men tend to enjoy higher pay and better perks which give them an unfair advantage in the competition for Singaporean women’s heart.

Unfortunately, there is nothing the government can do about this, he was told.

“The government cannot regulate love,” Ms Fu said.

*Illustrated pic from internet

103 Responses to “Young Singapore man asks minister to stop foreign men from snatching away local women”

  1. Stephen T said

    What a loser… Embarrassing that this young man has such low self-esteem that he has to ask government to stop foreign men. He should go woo foreign girls to take them from foreign men. What a wuss…

  2. Spg said

    This place is perfect for western sexpats and their SPGs…. Perfect! Even the daughter of Woody is an SPG

  3. JoJo said

    Hahahahaha!! Well, if you guys stop marrying Vietnamese, Thai, Indon and Pinoy, we might try.. silly!

    • Random Individual. said

      Reminds me of a research paper I once did on the psyche of Singaporean men… surprisingly, they exhibit an inherent fear of competition and represents the “flight” element in a “fight or flight” conundrum yet they also exhibit high levels of prides and ego, often delving into male chauvinistic beliefs.

      This explains both the reason why Singaporean males find it hard to compete and why Singaporean males prefers to go for foreign submissive wives.

  4. Jimmy Kong said

    I am a Singaporean with a Singaporean wife. What I am seeing is that you have no confidence to tackle this world. i know is good to be contended but that only last you this moment, please have more thought before you blah out. There are a lot of people in this world that is worst off than you. i am not supporting any party in Singapore but I have a mindset that have seen worst. Do not turn back the clock.

  5. People Inaction PArty said

    Typical Singaporean asking the gahmen to wipe his backside for him after he poos. Here is a joke that says it all:

    Two Italian men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The two fought and one KILLED the other to have the lady.

    Two American men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – They both had the lady TOGETHER.

    Two French men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – They killed the lady to have EACH OTHER.

    Two Indonesian men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The first man claimed that island is independent and took the lady as his advisor.
    – The second man swam to another island to search for jobs.

    Two Thai men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The first man rented the lady to the second man for 2 baht a night.

    Two Filipino men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The first man kidnapped the lady and asked for ransom from the other man.

    Two Malaysian men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The lady ACCUSED the first man of sodomizing the other because she was rejected by both.

    Two Singaporean men and a lady stranded on a desert island;
    – The two men are still waiting for instructions from the GOVERNMENT on how to proceed.

    • Steve Lee said

      Lol. Unfortunately true to life about Singapore men. I couldn’t stop laughing.

    • Pen And Penis said

      The last joke best describes MIW and their supporters.

      While waiting for instructions from the govt, the 2 men stranded on the island will wank each other and brag to the lady they are being smart.

    • Chloe said

      HAHAHAHA

    • Ah Pin said

      Lol.
      That was a good one

    • Yawn said

      Yawn

    • emigrant said

      Actually all this is so true of Sillypore and that is why I left this God-forsaken piece of rock. I always learned overseas about Carpe Diem, Sieze the Day…

      There are 3 groups of people in the world, those who make things happen, those who follow when things happen and the last group asks, ‘What happened?’ Sillyporeans belong to the last group.

      Another joke about Sillyporean is this

      3 businessmen went to China to make money. The Taiwanese businessman came back with 2 bags full of cash, the Hong Konger cam back with 1 bag full of cash…and the poor Sillyporean businessman came back with a bag full of feasilbility reports….GAME OVER…losers

  6. Kkl said

    Real stupid question?. You could also be snatching foreign women from foreign man. How are you going to regulate it?

  7. KLee05 said

    LOL another frickin SG idiot who wants to be mollycoddled by DADDY PAP.

    Singaporean men cannot make it they want protectionism for jobs and they want protectionism for women.

    Which desperate woman is going to find such a loser attractive???

  8. Singkaypoh said

    He can still choose from Grace Fu, Cecilia Sue, and Feng Tian Wei…so, when is somebody going to take him in?πŸ™‚

  9. hihihi said

    Well he could try his luck with those with a big nose.

  10. Why blame the foreign men?
    It is after all, the womens choice.
    People have the freedom to choose who they want.
    We do not want to return to the days of arranged marriages.

    • Marriage In White said

      What’s wrong with arranged marriages ?
      It is an open secret LKY arranged HoJinx for his useless son.
      Are they not still together, Ah Loong sitting on the throne and HoJinx helming Temasek ?

      Can you recall Lee Bee Wah proclaiming she is trying to find a husband for Feng TW ? Maybe you can consider taking up the offer. There will be plenty of sponsors to pick up the tab for expenses and of course the big angpows from LeeBW, ChanCS, TeoCH, etc, etc.

      • I don’t like marriage. There is no privacy nor freedom in marriage.

        You want to know what is wrong with arranged marriages? Ask any woman’s rights advocate.

      • Julie Ong said

        Aiyah, Mr Goh Tong Seng. Why like that?

        ‘There is no privacy nor freedom in marriage’. Not true, leh!
        What about freedom for the ‘little John’ aka the private part? Privacy? Well, if you’re happy …….to only do it yourself for yourself!

        I do not mean to be rude. Only explicit, factual and frank.

        Think about it: If our parents hadn’t ‘misbehaved’ themselves then where will we be? Having said that I respect your view and choice.

        P.S. Don’t forget that there’s also someone to help you. Share your ups and downs. Not a bad deal after all isn’t it?

      • I never had privacy nor freedom. And I sure as fuck will not give up what I do not have for what I do not want. It is just fucking damn illogical.

  11. Steve Lee said

    Sad but true. Did he just realize this? Try Vietnam or Cambodia or migrate. Too bad, so sad. Did he expect the government to allocate him a wife? Lol.

  12. Smart said

    This may be why Singaporean men are not getting their wives….

    NO MORE 5C’S
    BUT NEW 5B’S in Singapore

    Well…..here is something to link the 5cs to the newer 5 bs !

    I don’t need a CAR, but I want a BMW

    I don’t need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW

    I don’t need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK

    I don’t need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS

    It’s interesting for you to read!

    Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C’s! :

    Car, Condo, Credit Card, Cash and Career

    Heard of the 5B’s?

    B – BMW

    B – Body

    B – Brain

    B – Billionaire

    B – Bungalow

    And, and addition with the 5K’s ………………….

    Kiasu (scared of losing)

    Kiasi (scared of dying)

    Kiabor (scared of wife)

    Kiaboh (scared of having nothing)

    Kiachenghu (scared of government)

    We’ve been reading about the 5C’s! and 5K’s for Singaporeans, now
    comes the 5 Numerals and Malaysia ‘s equivalent…

    Singapore’s ‘practice’ for Simple Living : 12345
    1 – One Wife (If more than one, LKY will consign you out of Singapore anyway )
    2 – Two Children
    3 – Three Bedroom Condo
    4 – Four Wheels
    5 – Five Figure Salary

    Malaysia’s Melayu ‘theory’ to Simple Living: 54321 must be opposite to Singapore’s theory ma
    5 – Five Children
    4 – Four Wives
    3 – Three Figure Salary
    2 – Two Wheels
    1 – One low-cost Govt. flat

    • proven relax theory said

      Nice one!
      You have given the dumb scholars in PAP the 54321 theory on how to solve the low procreation and expensive housing problems. LOL

    • Heart said

      Low cost flats in Malaysia sold directly to Malaysians is only RM25000. Medium cost flats costs RM50000. And yes there are only three zeroes after 25. That works out to be S$10000 for a 2 bedroom flat.

      I have so many friends and relatives has migrated to Malaysia to stay, retire or travel to SGH to work every day. I have a doctor friend who works for SGH bought a huge landed property in Nusajaya for S$400k, drives to work every morning. It takes him 45mins to get to work via Tuas checkpoint.

  13. Ah Lian said

    No money (jobs taken away/pay depressed by foreigners), no honey, no local babies (to serve NS)

  14. Pink Panty Loong said

    Is this for real? Or is it another stupid ploy to cast Singaporeans in a bad light again? “Young Singapore Man”, if those women you met are really going for status or money, they don’t worth your attention anyway. You’d also lose them to any higher status/income Singapore men too. Singaporean males are seen as a hot item in other asian countries, how come you are not aware of that? By the way, local women are really not what most local males would favour too, hahahahaa…And lastly, can stop making a fool out of yourself in future? There are more critical issues/questions to ask your MP Grace Fool…..

    • Random Individual. said

      Perhaps those girls are simply looking for a man with balls, not a boy who runs to momma for help when his “territory” is being challenged.

  15. jilla said

    it’s not that foreign men have higher pay… locals’ dicks are way too small!!

    • mahbok tan said

      are we suppose to laugh or wat…???

      Does dick size satisfy you…..how big is your private part hole…..3 tonner can u-turn….???

      Go back to your JC and learn more about human body….!!!???

      do not make SGporean men angry with such silly and immature comment , coz we already have one silly young SGporean asking for GOVT help……KNNBCCB….silly young men…!!!

    • SG said

      Despite your yawning-loose excuse of a vgn, Why did you scream bloody murder then?

    • Genghis khan said

      Make sure your dirty pussy get fuck not just one but 10 to 20 foreigner u fxxking dirt whore

  16. David said

    Nobody asks you to regulate love. We just want the government to regulate the inflow of foreigners. No wonder people called you a fool. But never mind, the political life of female minister is short one. Hope you get booted out of the parliament by the next election.

    • Pink Panty Loong said

      Good one, David!

    • Random Individual. said

      I’m sure the government would regulate foreigners inflow if you can provide them an effective alternative solution to our workforce demands.

      • David said

        What alternative workforce demand r u talking about? These foreigners (I am referring to the PMEs that Singapore women are interested in, not the low level workers whose jobs are shunned by the locals) take away jobs that locals want and can do. Only a few of the foreigners really possess skills that locals do not have.

      • No brain said

        If people can provide them effective alternative solution, then why we need this overpaid govt?

      • Random Individual. said

        strawman argument. if there is no effective solution, even the best paid government cannot solve your problems, no point beating a dead horse and blaming everything on a well paid government.

        I happen to be building a bridge that covers a distance of 400m, weighs 1 ton and can support a load of 18000 tonnes, I’ll pay you 500 million for your efforts, can you solve my problems even if I were to over-pay for your services?

        case in point, perhaps it does pay to think critically.

  17. Ah Piah said

    You can settle for Cecila Sue ( for her blow job ) or Amy Cheong

    • sunny said

      Yeh man, Cecilia ” Blow Job” Sue will probably be available after divorce. You can apply for husband position by supporting her during court proceedings.

  18. Pink Panty Loong said

    Women are not interested in dick size lah! It seems to be more important to the men during their locker-room comparison. You flash your dick to impress them on your first date? No, right? They love you becauses of your dick size but not your personality and character? Sad, right?

  19. Christine Sng Mechtler said

    Question: why do Singaporean men get so agitated over foreign men “stealing our local women” while I never hear Singaporean women getting upset over foreign women snatching away our local men? Any insights, anyone?

    • Pink Panty Loong said

      Alot of Singaporean wifes also get agitated & felt very insecure over foreign girls “stealing local men”. The loser “young singapore man” don’t represent the rest of the Singapore men, you know.

    • Sg said

      Did you just emerge from a cave?

    • emigrant said

      That’s because Sillyporean men are such dumb losers

      • Pink Panty Loong said

        Vietnam, Philippines and India men are all the useless ones. They drinks, merry go round like no tomorrow and depend on their women to give them a livelihood. That’s why alot of them would dream to marry Singaporeans. Go get your facts right, dummy.

      • Genghis khan said

        hey emigrant, don’t be a keyboard warrior.I one Singaporean man alone can take on 10 of u dirty ;foreigner trash with my both hand!

    • Heart said

      What I heard from the local girls is that most Singapore men are NOT Up To MARK.

      Not gracious
      Not gentlemen
      Not romantic
      Not intelligent
      Not creative
      Not well dressed
      Not good looking
      Not good listeners
      Not good talkers
      Not good ideas
      Not good general knowledge
      Not seen the world

      Oh the good ones are already taken. The good ones are already taken.
      Most left overs are too nerdy.

      For all single men out there, if you can solve the above shortfalls, having a little less money, a smaller car and a smaller HDB will not be that big of a problem.

      Please don’t blame the FTs for your own lack of character and lack of talent.

      • Pink Panty Loong said

        Alot of 3rd world countries’ girls said their men are not up to mark. All hope to marry Singapore men because their own men are lazy and refuse to work. They depend on the women for their livelihood. By the way, don’t slap gold on your face. Our local girls will never think you cheap FTs are up to mark either. They go for EXPATS. The real Talents from the first world countries. Not those from the 3rd world countries.

      • more reliable info said

        I seriously doubt the info given to you because I can easily identify more than 100 Sporean friends of mine who are married to local women and another 100 who have sporean girlfriends. And seriously, this is only a small sample because the organization I work for employs more than 10,000 sporeans.

        I took note that you listed 12 qualities and claimed majority of sporeans do not have them. Then pray tell me honestly whether you have all 12 qualities ?

        On the otherhand I dare say my fellow sporean friends including myself have probably only 6 to 7 of such qualities but we are still happily married or still attached to local women.

      • Random Individual. said

        your 100 friends out of a female population of 2.7 million? you do know that the statistics you claim to be “more reliable” is a false logic considering the disparity of your sample size against the collective whole of the nation.

        Singaporean guys are wimps, particularly good at daydreaming and talking about how awesome they think they are, but then again, talk is cheap.

        I’m generalising here but I honestly don’t think that Singaporean guys are a bright bunch.

  20. Copycat Chen said

    Wait now FTs earn more the locals? I thought all U jokers kept saying FTs earn less than locals depressing our wages. Make up your mind

  21. Genghis khan said

    Really a disgrace from what u r asking for as a Singaporean men!!!no wonder so many local women married to foreigner cos loser like u!fxxking faggots., get a life and built up your confidence and stop blaming local women or foreign man!

    • emigrant said

      Right on….

      • Pink Panty Loong said

        Genghis Khan is only talking about the useless “Young Singapore Man” that raised the stupid quesion. How come you are agreeing blindly you foreign trash?

      • Virgorian said

        Pink panty loong, that’s why his ( emigrant )a foreign trash that don’t understand simple English or he just another loser that is represent his shit race or 3rd world country low class mankind trying to stuff his cheap ass in our high society country !!

      • Random Individual. said

        Emigrant means the act of leaving one’s country, in this situation, it seems more apt that he is referring to his action of leaving Singapore for another country.

        Virgorian, perhaps it helps to either get a proper education or have parents that belongs to a superior gene pool before attempting to disparage another, you’ll get put down faster than the blink of an eye.πŸ˜‰

  22. Random Individual. said

    Case in point, this is one good reason why Singapore girls goes for foreign guys… Singaporean guys are typically wussy and afraid of competition… yet they’re impossibly egoistic and subscribes to male chauvinistic beliefs.

    • Pink Panty Loong said

      @Random, Singapore guys NEVER complained that they can’t get local girls cos they are not worth our attention anyway. And before your head gets too big, the girls are going for EXPATS here. Not cheapo Foreign Trash like you that couldn’teven earn a decent living in your own country.

      • FU said

        Hear, hear. I second that. FO! Random loser. Go back to your god forsaken rat hole of a country!

      • Random Individual. said

        so, because I do not support your stand, I’m a FT? shallow. well, not wishing to boast but I’m a local bred professional with more years of higher education than you could’ve imagined.

        so, now Singaporean guys thinks local girls aren’t worth their attention? right. sure, I’ll just play along and believe you as long as it strokes your ego.

        p.s. case in point

      • Random Individual. said

        oh I can’t help but correct you (believe me I’ve tried) Expats are foreigners just like the foreign talents you enjoy disparaging so much, as for decent living, I highly doubt you make anywhere close to where I consider “decent”πŸ˜‰

  23. B Chan said

    What to do? Ang Moh Tua Kee.

  24. Ron said

    ha ha ha….my toes are laughing. No, some special part is laughing.

    Spore men are poor losers. Take a look in the mirror and also take a ruler.. you what I mean… ha ha.

    Ride the MRT or take the lift…. you see the biiter gourd looks (the gu gua look). Spore men are busy with their Ipad, Ipod, I-whatever. Do they have the social grace to even give a slight smile, a nod of friendliness? They may groom themselves with high styling gel but they cocoon themselves with a ring of “do not approach me”.

    The foreigners especially the Westerners have a natural flair to smile, be polite, to reach out. No wonder the girls are responding. And wait till they go further into intimacy…. ha ha

  25. huh? said

    they cant regulate love, but they can regulate the playing field, so many sg men are at a disadvantage when they complete NS, no support given to them to find job or pursue an education.

  26. Who_cares said

    Why bother? Singaporean women are among the least desirable worldwide. Sg guys will rather go for PRC, Vietnamese, Thai or even Ang Mo girls.

    • Heart said

      So why are so many SG men complaining about FTs and they themselves going after the Foriegn Tits?

      • Pink Panty Loong said

        @Heart, only foreign trash will come to Singapore because they can’t make it in their own countries. We go to THEIR countries to look for the best girls OVER THERE. Not those cheapo ones that arrived in SINKAPOOR.

      • pen and penis said

        Majority of SG men are a lot smarter than you think. They have been checking out the Spore women as well as the Thais, Indonesians, Malaysians Viets, PRCs, Pinas, etc, etc and realised there is really no hurry to get hitched…not when they are enjoying themselves.

        The Angmohs can do the marrying on behalf of SG men and do you think for one moment smart SG men will get jealous ? I will say good luck to them and if you think deeply about it, you will begin to understand alot more about SG men.
        Don’t pick the dumb ones and draw your conclusion, because there will always be dumb citizens in any country that you care to name…..
        And those AngMohs who marry SG women think they came and conquered.
        Again I wish them good luck. LOL

        By the way, are you aware of the SG “women’s charter”, a very blunt instrument that can be used against husbands and set them back financially?
        Do you know who gave LKY this idea and helped him to draft it ?
        Do you understand his motive ? LOL

  27. Ben said

    go and take a foreign bride, nothing attractive about most local women anyway.

  28. Singapore Cock said

    The essence of his feedback is that PMET FT are being paid better and can afford to outspend the SG folks to get the materialistic gals.

  29. Lucinda Goh said

    This is laughable! Not surprising if it is Grace Fu herself who cooked up such cock and bull story just to give her a chance to say that the govt could not help in everything. Those local girls who are SPGs themselves will willingly want to go for foreigners. On the other hand, most eligible young men are also not interested in these girls. So there is no such ‘snatching’ so to speak, Grace Fu.

    • Pink Panty Loong said

      Agree! That’s why I’ve mentioned if it is another ploy to dig at Singaporeans. By the way, lets vote the useless and decadent Pro-Aliens Party out before we lost Singapore forever.

  30. NaBey said

    PRC and Viet also kow bey kow bu, why sporean men snatch their women!

  31. jack said

    Singaporean men need to serve NS thus lose out in term of working experience. Sad sad for the Singaporean men who sacrifice to protect the Singapore women and children.

    While minister Grace cannot regulate love, sure the PM office can restrict the kind of foreign workers into Singapore

    • grace can sniff well said

      Actually you are partially right about Grace Fu, she can actually regulate love with her hubby using her nose or regulate her hubby’s love with other women by sniffing for clues. LOL

  32. Worriedsgp said

    Maybe this loser lost his wife to a ang moh

  33. eliz_daniel said

    Singapore Chinese dicks need some exercise to make it bigger, otherwise you keep losing to foreign…sad but true.

    • golden gun said

      If you are indeed a woman, I am cocksure your lobang is really wide.
      And if it is as wide as that of a cow, I gladly concede that my dick is not big enough and good enough for you…..sad but true.

      Anyway, don’t BS here that women prefer big dicks. Not Asian women anyway. So, how many sex partners have you had to make such a sweeping statement ?

      in case you are truly ignorant, It is all about skills and foreplay

  34. Luke said

    S’pore women ‘5th most unfaithful in the world’ the foreign men can have them………

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